Are you single for the holidays and hating every second of it. I don’t blame you. It can really suck not having a girlfriend, but it’s even worse during special time like Christmas. While I can’t guarantee you a girlfriend with these tips, if you follow them you’ll have a better chance of a loneliness free holiday.
Get Her Out With You
Before Christmas break starts, ask a few girls out on a date. It doesn’t even have to be a formal “date.” Invite her over to your house, out for coffee, or to a school event. You can’t get a girlfriend if you don’t get her in your presence.
While going out with her isn’t a promise of romance, almost all relationships start with going out in some fashion. Even if you don’t end up as her boyfriend, at least you’ll have some holiday company.
Once you get her out, then put on your charm. Be funny and confident, even bordering on cocky. Let her know you’re a high value guy who is worth knowing. Be cool and relaxed, as well. Don’t talk too much or come across as desperate.
Go Where The Girls Are
If you get turned down or are in the “friend zone” with the girls you know, then you’ll have to meet some new ones. You need to get your butt where the girls are. Around Christmas, there’s a great place to find ladies: the mall.
Find the nearest mall and go and try to meet a few. While there you’ll have to randomly approach them. Try to use funny remarks to get their attention. Don’t try pick up lines, but be unique based on the situation. If you get too nervous about approaching, just remember that getting rejected isn’t the end of the world. It won’t kill you!
Seal the Deal
If you meet a girl at the mall or take someone you know out, you’ll have to make sure you close the deal. In other words, you can’t enter the friend zone. You can do this by being clear with your intentions.
If you’ve just met her, make sure you get her number or her social media information (like Facebook). From there you can move the relationship forward, hopefully to a more romantic place.
While these tips are general, to pull them off successfully, you’ll need the charm, wit, and confidence. Our website helps you in achieving those. Check the sidebar for more categories with advice. The “dating” and “guys” categories will be especially useful.