Yesterday we discussed why girls love cocky jerks. Since it’s hard wired into the female brain, there’s no point in trying to change their minds (literally). And, if you’re a teen guy reading this (which is likely), the younger the girl, the more likely she’ll be into the jerk/bad boy.
So, instead of hoping girls, after millions of years, start preferring nice guys when they’re teens, change yourself. Start being a little more cocky. While, I don’t recommend turning into a full scale jerk, you’ll need to add a little edge to your life. Here are three ways to be more cocky (and get more girls to like you).
I know a guy who brushes his teeth at the same time everyday. He does everything else on schedule too. He’s the perfect accountant (his job). But, he’s also very boring. And, very single. Women of all ages want a guy who can give them a little excitement.
After all, a powerful guy who provides and protects will likely create excitement in a girl’s life. In the old days it may have been standing up to a bear. Today, it could involve being a little unpredictable. Don’t do anything stupid, illegal, or dangerous. But, try to be a little unpredictable at times. Speak your mind, change course, try something fun and exciting, etc.
Believe in Yourself
People who are cocky, by definition, believe in themselves. Do they believe in themselves too much? Maybe! But, as any good salesman can tell you, if you can convince others of it, then it doesn’t matter the reality behind it. So, you need to start believing in yourself a little more. In fact, start believing a lot more.
If you are good at something, then play it up. If you have a skill, be very proud of it! If you love your personality, then confidently project that to the world. Don’t be shy and timid, but instead believe that you are awesome and the world should recognize that. If you start thinking you’re becoming too cocky, then you’re probably just right. You’re on this earth for a reason. Be proud of whatever that is!
Act Like You Own the Place
This is my tip for everyone who needs more confident. Wherever you go and whatever you do, act like you own the place. Imagine a giant mansion filled with teens having fun. If the owner walked in, he’d be a celebrity for sure. So, wherever you go, act like you own the place.
Unless you’re a millionaire teen, you probably don’t own any building. However, walk, talk, and act with confidence like you actually do own it. Now, this doesn’t mean lying or pretending you are the owner! It just means projecting the confidence you would have if you really were the owner.
Tomorrow think about how you’d feel if you owned the school. Then, walk around the school with that feeling in mind. Feeling more cocky already? I hope so!
These tips should help you be a little more confident and yes, a little cocky. Remember, don’t be a jerk or a bad person. Just walk around with a little more swagger and stop being so bland. Be a good guy, but not a nice guy everyone takes advantage of.